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What is an Adult Third Culture Kid? Identity, belonging, and therapy for ATCKs in New York
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What is an Adult Third Culture Kid? Identity, belonging, and therapy for ATCKs in New York

I am fortunate to be part of a peer supervision group with a few treasured colleagues. We met at a training some years ago and meet to practice together, seek consultation where necessary, and provide support. In one of our meetings, we started talking about upbringing, and I mentioned I grew up going to an international school. My colleague surprised me by asking, “How did that affect you, do you think? There’s so much that happens in those years developmentally, and if you weren’t forming the connection with your parents in those years, how did that affect your relationship with them? Or with everyone else?”  

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What is inner child work for Asian, Asian American, and Central Asian adults?

What is inner child work for Asian, Asian American, and Central Asian adults?

Sometimes, hearing the term “inner child work” can elicit a polite skepticism, particularly in the context of therapy. What does inner child work mean if your inner child has been parentified and does not particularly want to work more than they already have to?

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